Start with a different mindset
You do not need confidence, a perfect plan, or the right words before you start. You need curiosity, willingness, and a first step. Connection is not something you master before doing — it is something you learn by doing.
Rethink what counts as a connection
Connections are not just strangers at formal events. They already exist around you — classmates, professors, alumni, guest speakers, mentors, and people in clubs and workplaces. If someone is doing work that interests you, that is enough reason to start a conversation.
Start with conversations, not outcomes
The best connections start as learning conversations, not job requests. You are not asking "Can you hire me?" — you are asking "Can I learn from you?" These questions are a great place to start:
- How did you get into this field?
- What does your work actually look like day-to-day?
- What skills matter most in your role?
- What surprised you about this career?
- What would you do differently if you were starting again?
These questions take the pressure off, build your confidence, and make follow-up feel natural.
Use the ecosystem around you
As a student, you are already in a high-access environment. Career fairs, industry insight events, employer information sessions, alumni panels, and student clubs are all spaces where meaningful conversations happen. Many professionals are genuinely open to these conversations — because they remember being where you are. TWU also offers direct support through Career Coaching, the Network Navigator Handbook, LinkedIn Launchpad, and workshops designed to help you practice outreach and follow-up.
Make connection a repeatable habit
The simplest way to build connections is to treat it like any other habit — small, consistent, and low pressure:
- After a class or event, introduce yourself to someone and ask one follow-up question
- When you find someone doing interesting work, send a short message asking for a 20-minute conversation
- After each conversation, write down one thing you learned and one thing to follow up on
- Set a small goal — one new conversation per month — and build from there
You do not need a plan or the perfect words. You just need to start, and then keep going.
LinkedIn as a connection tool
LinkedIn is one of the most practical tools available to you as a student. It lets you reach people you would otherwise never have access to, stay visible to employers, and build a professional presence that grows with you over time.
Start by connecting with people you already know — classmates, professors, and anyone you've met at events or through work. From there, use LinkedIn's search feature to find alumni working in fields that interest you. One particularly useful feature is the alumni search tool, which lets you find TWU graduates working in specific industries or roles — people who already share your background and are often genuinely glad to hear from a current student.
When you reach out, keep it simple: who you are, why you're reaching out, and one specific question. That is enough to start a real conversation.
Make connection a repeatable practice
The simplest way to build connections is to treat them like any other habit — small, consistent, and low pressure. Here's what that looks like in practice:
- After a class or event where someone said something interesting, introduce yourself and ask one follow-up question
- When you come across someone doing work that interests you, send a short message asking if they'd be open to a 20-minute conversation
- After each conversation, jot down one thing you learned and one thing you want to follow up on
- Set a simple goal — one new conversation per month — and build from there
You don't need a plan or the perfect words. You just need to start, and then keep going.